Friday, April 10, 2026

What Do Adults Do With Their Money?

What Do Adults Do With Their Money?

It all started with a question.

After spending a year working two part-time jobs, graduating from college, and spending another year working three part-time jobs, I was now in grad school over 400 miles away from home.

I had just spent a year in grad school on a slim stipend that put me around the federal poverty line, and I added up all my expenses. To my surprise, I found that I was actually making money in grad school! Not much, but hey, a surplus is a surplus! I did get an extra couple thousand dollars from summer employment, so I was actually doing okay. Not great, but okay.

But I had proven to myself that I could live—and pay all my own bills—on a $12,500 annual salary. Not that I had a very high standard of living, but at least I could do it!

After toting up the numbers, I came out 'in the black,' as they say. I never expected grad school to actually be profitable!

I wasn't only looking back at the past year; I was also looking ahead. In just a couple short years, I'd be earning an actual salary. For the first time in my life, I wouldn't be a student, or a grad student, or a young person balancing multiple part-time jobs while looking to further his education.

I'd have an actual, full-time job. With commensurate salary and benefits.

And I wanted to know what to do with my money before I got there.

Here I am in 2014, living on less than my $12,500 a year. In a couple years, my salary should roughly quadruple (and in retrospect, that's almost exactly what happened). Though I already knew my lifestyle might double once I was a real adult, it definitely wouldn't quadruple.

So...what do adults actually do with all that extra money?

Wednesday, April 8, 2026

The Mortgage Trap

 The Mortgage Trap

I just watched the 2005 movie Thank You For Smoking for the first time recently. (I know, I know...in my defense, I was in high school when the movie was released, and I hardly watched any movies back then. I'm so far behind that I'll never catch up ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ )

One line particularly struck me, when Heather Holloway (the reporter, played by Katie Holmes) asks the main character, Nick Naylor (an excellent portrayal by Aaron Eckhart) why he speaks and lobbies on behalf of tobacco companies. Naylor's reply was that it pays the mortgage. He then speculates that maybe the world would be a better place if everyone rented.

In fact, you can just watch the scene yourself:


Superb writing, and excellent acting and directing. Seriously, it's a really good movie, and I wish I had watched it before.

But this isn't a film review page, so let's get to the meat.

Would the world indeed be a better place without mortgages?

You may have read my 2018 article on why you shouldn't buy a house if you want to get rich. If you REALLY want to question everything you've ever learned, you should read my inspiration for that piece: Jim Collins' take on Why Your House Is a Terrible Investment.


Saturday, February 28, 2026

The K-shaped Economy: Addendum

Here's a quick addendum to my previous post about the k-shaped economy.

This realization was driven in large part by conversations with co-workers on the topic.

The assumptions

For a thought exercise, let's assume the changes over the decades in the executive-to-worker pay ratio simply never happened, and executives today are still pulling a salary at a similar ratio to what they got in 1940.

As a reminder, James A. Stack - the credit control executive (notably, not a CEO) for a textile importing firm - got paid $5000 per year in 1940. That's roughly 4 times the median U.S. worker's salary at the time ($1226 in 1939, according to data from Census.gov, and $1368 in 1940, according to data from archives.gov).

The median weekly salary for U.S. workers in 2025 was $1204, according to a press release from the Bureau of Labor Statistics. Since I'm a U.S. worker who gets paid roughly the median salary, I can afford a calculator 🤣

My calculator tells me that works out to $62,608 per year. Funny how, in less than a century, a median worker goes from $1200 per year to $1200 per week.

Anyway, multiply that 2025 median annual salary by 4, and you get $250,432. So in our thought exercise where everybody's wages inflate in equal proportion, Mr. Stack would be earning a quarter mill per year. Nice chunk of change, but not an outrageous salary.

The crown jewel of his collection - that Class III 1804 dollar - just sold in December 2025 for a $5 million hammer price + 20% buyer's premium = a total of $6 million.

The Class III 1804 dollar from the James A. Stack collection, sold at auction in Dec 2025.
Photo by Stack's Bowers Galleries.
The auction house stated that James A. Stack was not related to Joseph and Morton Stack,
the original founders of Stack's Rare Coins.

Remember also that plenty of other valuable coins were sold in the James A. Stack auction, a few of which sold for hundreds of thousands apiece. So it's not like Mr. Stack only bought one expensive coin; he built a marvelous collection of fine specimens.

The realization

If the executive-to-worker pay ratio hadn't changed over time, James A. Stack wouldn't be able to afford his own coin!!!

If that doesn't demonstrate that something is off-kilter, I don't know what does...

Thursday, February 26, 2026

The K-shaped Economy (and Personal Recollections)

The K-shaped Economy (and personal recollections)

Heard about the 'k-shaped economy?' Here's some more evidence for you:

https://www.coinworld.com/news/us-coins/final-set-of-privy-marked-lincoln-cents-sells-for-800-000

https://www.coinworld.com/news/us-coins/1804-dollar-reaches-6-million-from-stack-collection-sale

https://stacksbowers.com/sbpressreleases/stacks-bowers-galleries-james-a-stack-sr-collection-rewrites-record-books/

https://www.greysheet.com/news/story/stacks-bowers-galleries-bidders-crush-records-at-james-a-stack-sr-part-ii-sale/4963

https://www.cnn.com/2026/02/16/americas/pokemon-card-logan-paul-record-auction-intl-hnk

Coin collecting

I've personally been a coin collector since before I had even heard the word 'blog.' I grew up without regular Web access - only being able to use the Net in computer classes in school, and for 1-hour sessions at the public library.

Later on, of course, the Web was ubiquitous, but I remained a late adopter, not having regular, on-demand Internet access until early adulthood.

To illustrate how long ago I was collecting, I still have a 1999 Susan B. Anthony dollar set that I asked my dad to buy for me at the Philadelphia Mint on a school trip (he was a chaperone). I remember taking a tour of Independence Hall and seeing the Liberty Bell, among other sites of historical import.

It was known at the time that 1999 was the last year for the unloved SBA dollar; the new dollars would be golden in color and feature Sacagawea on the 'heads' side. So I asked for that SBA set specifically, hoping that the final year would be a 'limited edition,' so-to-speak, and rise in value over time.

I also remember something just as educational as - but less historical than - Independence Hall. More than one of my classmates showed me the Pokemon cards they bought with the souvenir money their parents gave them.

Sure, Pokemon cards are collectible, too, these days (apparently that's especially true if it was previously owned by somebody who talks on YouTube for a living!). I still have a bunch of Pokemon cards from when I was in elementary school. But I've looked up the value of the cards I have - most of them are valued at around a dollar.

Those booster packs that my friends bought retailed for $3-4 at the time, and I believe they contained 10 cards. Maybe 8. (Please excuse my hazy memory, since I never personally bought any - what cards I have were gifts from adults, mainly my parents. I can only dimly remember what I saw on the shelves). So, estimated generously, the contents of their packs might have doubled in value by today.

My SBA set, however, still has all the original packaging, as well as the receipt, in the Mint gift bag. So I don't have to rely on memory. The two-coin set (one from the Philadelphia Mint and one from the Denver Mint) was acquired for $5.95, according to the receipt, and is now listed at a $20 retail value. 

However, a quick online search reveals the same set selling for less than $20, so the true market price is debatable. In any case, I suspect that my SBA set has appreciated more than my friends' Pokemon cards.

I say this, not to brag that I'm smarter than a fifth-grader, but to show how long I've been a coin collector. There was actual reasoning behind my request. And my collecting was reasonably serious, though naturally as an elementary school kid, I was a bit short on funds.

I didn't start actually purchasing collectible coins until adulthood - specifically, about 5 years ago, in the beginning of 2021. My first purchase was a 1958-D Ben Franklin half dollar, containing 90% silver. If you're curious, the total silver content amounts to a bit over one-third of a troy ounce. That means the silver value alone is about $28 at the moment, which is roughly double what I paid for the coin in early 2021.

While I still tend to play around on the low end of the market, predominantly buying coins valued at less than $100, I've read the Red Book price guide for coins. And a Blue Book that was given to me as a gift in middle school. And, more recently, a Mega Red Book, which absolutely lives up to its 'Mega' moniker - a paperback book that tips the scales at over 6 pounds!

Mega Red is so heavy because it's a great source for information. If you spend enough time poring over its voluminous pages, you'll run across some prices that drop your jaw!

Maybe you're a budding collector who's interested in owning an example of a historical piece. For example, the half-cent denomination, used from 1793 through 1857, at which point it was discontinued and never used again in the United States.

So, what's the price for an early piece of numismatic Americana like the half-cent? How does $16,000 strike you, for a 1797 half-cent (plain edge) in MS-60 condition? Or $75,000 for the rarer 1797 half-cent with lettered edge, in the lower AU-50 condition?!

Granted, you could save a few bucks by getting one in rougher shape. In F-12 condition, it'll actually look like an old coin that got used for decades. A lot of the finer details will be worn away, but you can still easily read the legends and see the designs.

Much more attainable, especially for a beginner, or a collector with limited funds. What would a 1797 half-cent in F-12 set you back? Only about $1250 to $1500 - a real bargain! 🤣

Okay, so you've ruled out early American coinage as too expensive. Maybe you want something newer. So you look for a Standing Liberty quarter from 1916, the first year in that series. It's only 110 years old. How bad could it be?

Mega Red Book lists a price of $15,000 in MS-60!!!

Ridiculous, right?

Well, there are certainly valid reasons why collectors pay such prices.

But there's an important economic point here. If you think these prices are absolutely insane, then you agree with the 99% of Americans who don't collect coins seriously. And even some of us who do!

The factors

I believe that there are two factors behind these astounding prices.

One is the rarity, the historical value, and the simple supply/demand ratio. I wouldn't expect to pay $2 for a coin from the 1790s - that's not reasonable, considering the age and the United States Mint's productivity at the time.

In fact, in its early days, the Mint used old, outdated equipment out of necessity. Much of Western Europe used much better machinery and more modern techniques. If you look at a British, French, or Spanish coin of the 1790s, the consistency and quality is visibly superior to American coins from the same timeframe.

While the U.S. Mint was an important source of national pride (as well as a minor source of national profit), the country was just getting its footing. Until the late 1820s, the Mint lacked the funds to really get top-tier equipment and employ world experts to use them properly. Also, the Mint experienced periodic shortages of the copper, silver, and gold planchets used to create the coins.

To go back to the 1797 half-cent as an example - only 127,840 were made in that year.

Over 100,000? Sounds like a lot, though, right?

Compare that to the production of, say, a modern quarter. In 2022, the Mint produced the first quarter in the American Women series, honoring Maya Angelou. The Philadelphia Mint alone produced 237,600,000. The Denver Mint contributed another 258,200,000. That's a combined production of roughly half a billion quarters - for a single series! There were 4 additional quarter designs released in 2022, honoring Sally Ride, Wilma Mankiller, Nina Otero-Warren, and Anna May Wong, all with similar mintage figures.

So, in 2022 alone, the Mint produced well over 2 billion quarters in a single year!

This comparison illustrates that half-cents were never very common to begin with. Some of them were lost, or worn completely flat. And surely, some were melted down by the Mint in subsequent years, so they could recycle the copper and use it to produce new coins. I guarantee that nobody in, say, 1808 was thinking about the supply of 1797 half-cents that would be available to collectors 200 years later!

So it's important for a collector to understand that American coins from the 1700s and early 1800s have always been pretty tough to find, especially in top-notch condition. Some of the more common specimens can be obtained, in lower condition, for prices of a few hundred to a couple thousand dollars, depending on the year and variety.

Paying, say, $700 for a half-cent in a lower grade? I'd say that's a reasonable expectation. For one of the rarer ones, I wouldn't blink at a price of $2000.

While I personally don't pay these prices, I accept them as reasonable, mostly because I'm a fairly well-read collector. Not an expert, but enough to understand some of the issues.

When I take a step back, though, I'm forced to admit that hundreds, or thousands, of dollars represents a high price to pay for a piece of metal with a particular design.

Which leads to the other factor. What else could possibly drive the price of a collectible, other than supply and demand?

The other factor, the one nobody ever seems to discuss, is the economic status of the buyer.

I've noticed, in my reading, a couple interesting points. James A. Stack, for instance, whose phenomenal collection is discussed in a couple of the links above, was a textile executive. Later in life, he became interested in coin collecting, and he frequently visited the top coin shops in New York City to seek out the very best examples he could find. He went to auctions of now-legendary collections, so he could have a crack at the best specimens available.

He truly was a connoisseur; knowledgeable and detailed. But did you notice his occupation? It's mentioned in the previous paragraph. Go back and find it - I'll wait.

Once you've found it, I'll point you to my own post from July of 2023:
https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2023/07/student-loans-arent-real-issue.html

On that post, take a look at the chart of worker productivity vs. inflation-adjusted pay over the years. Then take a look at the ratio of CEO-to-typical-worker pay. 

A catalog produced by the auction house indicates that Mr. Stack's salary in 1940, while he was building his collection, his salary was $5000 - about 4 times the wage of a typical employee in the United States. His knowledge and skill set may well have justified that rate of pay.

Today, executives in many public companies are easily making 100 times the wage of a typical employee. CEOs of large public companies, as that EPI link explains, average about 280 times the median wage of employees in their respective companies.

Whether their skills justify that level of compensation is certainly debatable. What is not debatable is the impact that will have on the price of...well, of anything! Collectibles. Cars. Phones. Organic produce. Whatever.

There is a certain point at which a person's income insulates them from financial mistakes. They can make a financial mistake, and keep making that mistake over and over, because their income is so high that it washes over their mistake as if it never happened.

Not many people are in that sort of financial position. Most of us have to watch our dollars, at least to some extent. But someone who has spent the majority of his or her career in a very highly-compensated position looks at money differently. Not because they're so much smarter than everybody else, but because for them, money is a virtually unlimited resource.

I suspect that it's those people who paid $50,000+ for a set of three Omega cents.

[I watched part of that auction live, out of curiosity. I was stunned to observe that most of the lots I saw, which was toward the end of the auction, went for ~$70-75,000 per lot! And, of course, the penultimate lot was around $150,000, and the final lot included the canceled dies as well as the coins, which fetched the headline-worthy $800,000 winning bid.]

I suspect it's those people who paid over $45,000 for a proof 1883 Morgan dollar.

I suspect it's those people who paid over $36,000 for an 1858-O Double Eagle.

And I guarantee it's one of those people who paid $6 million, including the buyer's fee, for an ultra-rare Class III 1804 dollar!

The James A. Stack Class III 1804 dollar; photo by Stack's Bowers Galleries

For someone with an inflation-adjusted salary of, say, $2 million per year, spending $50,000 on a rare coin is akin to somebody with a salary of $70,000 per year spending $1750 on a rare coin.

I didn't pull that figure out of my hat; I actually did the math. That's the ratio - $50,000 is to $2 million as $1750 is to a worker on a more typical salary of $70,000. A high-earner can buy a new car with the same level of care as a high-end laptop for you or me!

This disparity puts very rare collectibles totally out of reach of even the most serious and knowledgeable collector - unless that collector happens to be very highly compensated. [See the James A. Stack Class III 1804 dollar that sold for a whopping $6 million - a sum that exceeds the total career earnings of probably 90% of Americans today].

I don't know how much Mr. Stack paid for the coin when he acquired it in the 1930s or 1940s. He probably paid a sizable amount for the time, because it's always been a very rare coin. But he likely didn't pay an entire lifetime's salary for a typical person, as somebody just paid two months ago.

I actually watched the Stack auction Part I live online in December 2025, and there were plenty of lots that went for much less, in some cases $6000 or $7000 apiece. The collector in me understands those prices to some extent, because the coins in that auction are excellent specimens, and some are quite rare.

But my lower-middle-class upbringing definitely shows when I recoil at the prices.

Remember how I asked for that Susan B. Anthony set, at a cost of $6, on that field trip in 1999? At the time, I was half-expecting to be turned down! I was so pleased to actually get the set that I didn't ask for anything else on the trip! (Aside from lunch, of course).

So $6 million for a coin remains absolutely unfathomable to me. Even if I had $250 million, I still don't think I'd pay $6 million for a coin - not even for the "King of American Coins," the 1804 dollar. I can think of many things I'd rather do with that money.

When the price of anything goes flying up - whether houses, eggs, cars, or antiques - people always cite "supply and demand" as the reason why.

They always seem to ignore the other side - wealthy people's ability to bid up the price of anything just because money is so much more readily available to them.

A quick economic lesson

As economists often explain, the price of anything is simply a signal to the market. If I pay $20 for a book, that's because I'd rather have the book than the $20. If I pay $20,000 for a car, that's because I'd rather have the car than the $20,000. And if I pay 59 cents for a banana, that's because I'd rather have the banana than the 59 cents.

After all, it's only one banana. What could it cost? Ten dollars?

The banana is also significantly tastier than 59 cents. Or ten dollars.

Anyway, the supply-and-demand explanation works for the most part, because most of us have broadly similar resources. But not all signals are the same to all people.

Maybe I make $50,000 per year, Andy makes $80,000 per year, and Bob makes $40,000 per year.

Yes, there are discrepancies, but we'll all be in the same ballpark. Andy might be able to outbid me for a house, but Bob won't be able to outbid me for the next one. And Andy isn't so rich that he'll outbid me by $100,000.

But Conor, who makes $8 million per year - one hundred times Andy's salary - might pay an extra $100,000 for the house, without even realizing how grossly he's overpaid for it!

And then, with his flood of extra money, Conor buys the other available houses as rental properties, so Andy, Bob, and I are forced to be renters because we can't possibly outbid Conor for any of the houses.

In essence, very highly-compensated people distort demand. Which changes the signals, thereby distorting the market. 

For some reason, economists rarely seem to discuss that part, at least in public venues.

I guess 'k-shaped' stands for 'kick in the pants.'

Or 'kleptomania.'

Wednesday, February 18, 2026

A Debate of Titans

A Debate of Titans

Paul Merriman and JL Collins have a friendly debate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yVwEPkWGOrE

It's a great example of a 'debate' where nobody gets angry, both parties are very reasonable and very respectful. I wish more such conversations existed!

But, I suppose in the 'attention economy,' rage and insults tend to draw more eyeballs, and therefore bring in more revenue.

Both Merriman and Collins dispense the kind of advice that is advocated around here, and in the grand scheme of things, they're not that far apart. JL Collins' position prioritizes simplicity, while Paul Merriman's advice has a little more complexity, with the goal of a better risk-adjusted return.

Merriman told me in an interview for this blog that his main advice has gotten simpler over the years, due in no small part to a conversation with John 'Jack' Bogle. He still supports his older Ultimate Portfolio, which holds ten different asset classes, but acknowledges that only a few percent of people will want to tinker with something like that.

My own investment strategy has been influenced by both men. So it's great to see them chatting on this video!


For the curious (or just for my own reference at a later date), here are links on this very blog containing references to each of these men:

JL Collins

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2018/04/chasing-money-ghosts.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2018/04/want-to-be-rich-dont-buy-house.html

My writing has even been featured in a book edited by JL Collins! Check it out: https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2023/11/pathfinders.html


Paul Merriman

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2021/02/supercharged-talking-millions-with-paul.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2021/09/the-best-performing-asset-classes.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2021/07/when-stocks-didnt-perform.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2022/05/battle-of-investments-stocks-bonds-and.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2021/03/from-10k-to-125m-why-compound-interest.html


Both

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2017/02/is-your-retirement-in-jeopardy.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2017/12/how-to-invest.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2017/04/should-you-trust-stock-market-pt-ii.html

https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2020/12/froogal-stoodent-vs-jlcollinsnh.html


And here's a book review of 2 Funds for Life, which was written by Chris Pedersen, who works with Paul Merriman and others in the Merriman Financial Education Foundation: https://froogalstoodent.blogspot.com/2024/07/2-funds-for-life-froogal-stoodent-review.html

Sunday, February 15, 2026

What's going on with silver?

What's going on with silver?

Hello again, Internet! It's been way too long since I've posted!

In case anybody wonders where I've been, the answer is that I've been learning, reading, and to a lesser extent actually making some transactions in precious metals and collectible coins, including going to a major coin show. More about that in another post, coming within a couple weeks.

So I haven't really had sufficient bandwidth to deal with work, learn more details about the collecting market, keep track of spot prices, look for good opportunities, and write for the blog all at the same time, along with regular activities of daily life.

A silver round; one troy ounce of .999 fine silver. Property of the author

Consider also that these have not been normal times in the precious metals market!!!

One year ago today was Feb. 15, 2025. On that day, gold was $2883 per troy oz, and silver was $32.15. Here's a source: https://goldprice.org/gold-price-today/2025-02-15.

  • Sure, this site doesn't provide the bid/ask spread, but in my observation, this website usually quotes a price that's between the two. So it's good enough if you want to quote a single number.

As I write now, it is late on Sunday morning, Feb. 15, 2026. Of course, trading markets are closed on the weekend. But the current spot price, as of market close on Friday, is $5041.80 per oz of gold, and $77.41 for a troy ounce of silver.

And just think - that's actually down from the peaks in January! Gold climbed to a peak of $5608.35/ozt in late January (I believe that's an intraday high, not a closing price, if my recollection is correct), and silver hit a whopping $121.64/ozt! Both are currently down quite a bit from those elevated levels, obvserved only a couple weeks ago!

6-month returns on gold have been +47.6% and 6-month returns on silver have been +99.39%. 12-month returns have been 70.84% on gold and 135.93% on silver. These returns come even after the ~7% drop in gold and 32% drop in silver in recent weeks! Think that explains why my attention has been elsewhere recently?!

That's a lot of excitement for one person to handle - hence why I didn't have much bandwidth to write for the blog.

So what's going on with precious metals? Are the usual explanations (geopolitical chaos, supply shortage, AI-driven demand) sufficient? Remember, silver more than tripled within a year's time [that was before it dropped like a rock, of course], and gold doubled in the same timeframe [before the slight pullback to the price we see today]. Were speculators and institutional investors really under that much pressure? Were they that scared?

Maybe. But color me skeptical of the usual narrative.

https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/markets/chinas-silver-weapon-could-hit-investors-and-prices-hard/ar-AA1TFmDU

https://vongreyerz.gold/alasdair-macleod-how-silver-has-been-suppressed

Never thought I'd have reason to thank the People's Bank of China for anything. But if these links are to be believed, looks like I owe them a hearty 'thank you!'

Not that they'd ever admit to suppressing the price of silver. Or gold. Or any other commodity...

Monday, September 1, 2025

Links for September 2025

Links for September 2025


https://www.fidelity.com/learning-center/personal-finance/best-states-for-taxes?ccsource=em_NB_1058859_FIDBITS_0225_20250314103051_T102040102_SFID_653293

https://fortune.com/2025/01/30/job-hunt-candidates-applying-a-year-ghosting/

No matter what the official reports from the BLS say, there's a whole lot of people with experiences like this. In fact, a number of years ago, I even experienced ghosting on my job search. The government can say that there are thousands of new jobs, but I'm not so sure...

https://www.reddit.com/r/ChubbyFIRE/comments/1f2vq2w/40_with_an_85m_net_worth_and_a_burntout_soul_but/?rdt=52881

Interesting conundrum. Maybe a candidate for retiring to "consulting" work, or a "job" related to a hobby, or something similar. 

https://ofdollarsanddata.com/proof-of-work/

Great point about crypto, tech, and bubbles in general!

https://awealthofcommonsense.com/2023/06/the-evolution-of-financial-advice/

https://www.morningstar.com/news/marketwatch/2025071592/my-grandmother-disinherited-my-father-yet-made-him-executor-of-her-will-now-he-refuses-to-file-for-probate

CEO pay actually declined a little bit from 2022 to 2023! https://www.epi.org/publication/ceo-pay-in-2023/

...or did it? https://news.gsu.edu/2025/06/19/study-reveals-companies-may-be-massaging-ceo-pay-ratios-without-changing-actual-pay/

Yep, sounds about right. CEOs are the new kings

How to fix this? A couple videos with interesting suggestions: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=66ZV1ualw48 and https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-k6czLUdJPI

Tuesday, August 26, 2025

What happens when entitled parents never prepare for retirement

I was going to include this link in a roundup, but it needs a whole post instead!

https://www.reddit.com/r/BoomersBeingFools/comments/18s8b04/boomer_parents_didnt_prepare_for_retirement_told/

I try to ignore the whole 'Boomers' thing when I'm reading this (as if you can't find fiscally irresponsible people in every generation!). But it's certainly a terrifying thought, and over the next ten years, I suspect there will be a lot more people who find themselves in a situation like this one.

My favorite quote: "They wanted me to just start paying the mortgage" → holy entitlement, Batman!!! Especially given that it's a 4000-sq-ft McMansion for two people! Even if I were a multimillionaire, I still wouldn't buy a house like that, unless my spouse and I had at least 4 or 5 children. Expecting someone else to pay for that...whew, I don't even know what to say!

I do think the original poster handled things...shall we say, generously, based on his description in the post.

I have so many thoughts on this scenario! Just...wow, I can't even arrange my thoughts properly.

Guess I'll just leave this piece of advice here: read this whole thing, and then never do anything like this to your family members!

Monday, August 11, 2025

Is Corporate Loyalty Dead?

Is Corporate Loyalty Dead?

AT&T CEO John Stankey's latest memo has generated quite a bit of discussion online.

Since I'm sure everybody has been sitting on pins and needles, waiting with bated breath for my take, here it is. Fashionably late, as always 🤣

You can read the memo on Business Insider, along with some...err, "highlights" they've picked out. Here's the link: https://www.businessinsider.com/att-ceo-john-stankey-email-employee-feedback-survey-rto-policy-2025-8

There's been quite a bit of discussion about whether this memo is a sign of the death of corporate loyalty.

Unfortunately, from what I've learned over the years, I believe that any corporate loyalty that may have existed already died. In fact, it was on life support way back when my father was younger than I am today.

My father is now retired.

Saturday, July 19, 2025

Guest Post: You're Not Bad With Money

This blog's friend, David of NeighborhoodWeek.org, has written another guest post! This one is right up our alley, advocating a mindset shift to get out of the old mental scripts that are holding you back.

If you like this guest post, you can find David's previous guest posts here, here, here, and here.

Take it away, David!

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You’re Not Bad With Money — You’re Just Using the Wrong Map

Changing your relationship with money isn't just about budgeting better or earning more. It’s about rewriting the internal script that dictates how you see value, risk, and possibility. For many people, old narratives like “money is hard to manage” or “I’m just not good with finances” are baked deep into behavior. But here’s the shift: your money mindset isn't permanent. And adjusting it might be the most life-changing investment you ever make.

Money Paralysis: When Caution Becomes a Cage

There’s a point when being careful becomes counterproductive. That hesitation? It’s got a name — Fear of Getting In. People stall on investments, careers, or even small risks because they’ve been conditioned to overweigh potential failure. But the reality is, most regrets don’t come from action. They come from sitting out. Recognizing that paralysis is the first signal you need a new financial lens — one that values thoughtful motion over perfect conditions.

Let the Wins Get Louder

You don’t have to be a prodigy to build momentum. Shelby Wright's savings journey proves that. She didn’t inherit wealth or land a million-dollar deal. She adjusted her habits — aggressively. By 23, she had nearly $100K in savings. The shift wasn’t magical; it was practical. She automated transfers, tracked spending, and let progress fuel more discipline. Sometimes the smartest strategy is just giving your own effort a chance to compound.

Call Out the Quiet Saboteurs

Changing your financial future means identifying the friction points that hide in plain sight. Mia McGrath's financial habits highlight some of the real culprits: impulse spending masked as self-care, confusing ownership with success, mistaking survival habits for strategy. If you’ve been “trying to do better” without traction, zoom in. Some of the loudest blockers don’t look like problems — until you name them.

This Isn’t Manifestation — It’s Infrastructure

Mindset shifts aren’t just about energy. Positive money mindset work means getting honest about your behavior and your blind spots. It’s about challenging scarcity logic, learning the real mechanics of money, and surrounding yourself with mental models that support agency. This kind of mindset isn't magic — it’s architecture.

You’re Not “Just a Nurse”

Money mindset isn’t abstract when it changes your future. In high-responsibility careers like healthcare, rethinking long-term value can change everything. RNs, for example, who decide to earn an RN-to-BSN aren’t just padding résumés — they’re building career resilience, earning potential, and choice. A mindset shift reframes education not as a cost, but as leverage.

Debt Isn’t the Whole Story

Let’s be clear: discipline isn’t deprivation. For some, like Bradley's debt payoff strategy, every dollar had a job. He crushed over $130K in student debt by ditching unnecessary spending, meal prepping, and making frugality visible. But his deeper shift? Seeing his debt plan as an act of control — not punishment. That’s the mindset pivot that mattered.

Your Goals Should Scare You (a Little)

If your financial goals don’t stretch you, they won’t sustain you. Setting financial goals isn’t about having a number — it’s about designing a new normal you’re excited to meet. That excitement rewires habits. You wake up differently when you’re aiming at something vivid, not vague. Don’t aim for “better.” Aim for different.

The Reward Is Autonomy

At the core of a powerful money mindset is freedom — not just from debt, but from patterns that keep you small. Money mindset tips don’t work if you’re only looking for tricks. What works is friction. Tension. Questions that stick: “Why am I scared of having more?” “Who benefits from me staying stuck?” Real change starts where the script breaks.

Money isn’t neutral. It’s shaped by story, shame, habits, and hope. Changing your money mindset doesn’t mean pretending you’re rich — it means deciding what rich means to you. Start small. Get clear. Interrupt your own loops. Let data challenge emotion, and let action heal confusion. The goal isn’t to be perfect with money. It’s to be powerful with it. One mindset at a time.


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Wednesday, July 9, 2025

Saving the taxpayer by stopping the penny

What No One Says About Ending the Penny

Not to worry, intrepid readers! I've decided to dive into the weeds and figure out if the government is wasting money by making money*

What seems to have been completely lost in discussions of ending the manufacture of the penny (and the nickel, which is an even bigger money-loser) is...all the other coins the Mint produces every year.

Image of uncirculated coin set from
U.S. Mint website https://www.usmint.gov/uncirculated-coin-set-2024-24RJ.html

Tuesday, May 20, 2025

Guest Post: How to Grow a Wild Mind

Are you a parent wondering about your child's learning? Enjoy this guest post from David of NeighborhoodWeek.org!


He's written guest posts for this blog before, regarding practical financial tips for surviving COVID, which you can read here, tips for starting a home-based business, which you can find here, and how college students can earn a degree without drowning in debt, which you can see here. We're glad to have him back for another guest post!

Take it away, David:

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How to Grow a Wild Mind: Keeping the Spark of Learning Alive in Your Kids

If you’re a parent, there’s a moment—usually somewhere between multiplication tables and standardized test season—when you start to wonder: What happened to the kid who asked a hundred questions before breakfast? The one who wanted to know why flamingos are pink, how clouds float, and whether a bug dreams? That bright spark begins to dim under worksheets, pressure, and the creeping fear that learning is something you’re either good at or not. But here’s the secret: learning isn’t a switch that flicks off. It’s a fire, and it just needs the right kind of tending.

Lead With Wonder, Not Worry

You don’t need to be a walking encyclopedia to nurture curiosity. You just need to let your own wonder out of its adult cage. That means saying things like, “I don’t know, let’s find out,” instead of pretending to have all the answers. When you approach the world with awe, your child learns that it’s okay—no, it’s great—to be fascinated by things they don’t understand yet. Your attitude toward learning is the quiet music they dance to, even when you think they’re not listening.

Walk the Talk With Your Own Curiosity

There’s no more powerful message you can send your child than letting them see you as a lifelong learner, too. Whether you’ve been out of school for five years or fifteen, choosing to go back—especially while balancing work and parenting—shows them that learning doesn’t stop when diplomas are framed. Online degree programs make it easier than ever to juggle family dinners, day jobs, and late-night study sessions without putting life on pause. And if you’re an RN, take a look at how earning a master’s in nursing can open doors in nurse education, informatics, administration, or advanced practice—and give your income a healthy lift, too.

Let Go of the Gold Stars

The second learning becomes about approval, something important breaks. Kids start performing instead of exploring. That drawing becomes a way to earn praise, not an outlet for creativity. It’s a subtle shift, but over time it teaches kids that the goal isn’t discovery—it’s external validation. Instead, try asking what they liked most about what they did, or what surprised them. Show them that their own opinions matter more than your applause.

Design for Boredom, Not Entertainment

We’re all a little too good at killing boredom with screens, structured activities, and scheduled everything. But boredom isn’t the enemy—it’s the beginning of creativity. When your kid says, “I’m bored,” try not to panic or fix it. Let them marinate in it. That quiet discomfort is often what stirs the brain into building forts, drawing weird monsters, or asking strange, brilliant questions about gravity or ghosts or why cats hate cucumbers.

Give Them the Tools, Then Step Back

You don’t need to teach your child every single thing—they’re wired to teach themselves when the conditions are right. The trick is to create an environment where exploration is possible, and then get out of the way. Fill the house with books, paper, LEGOs, a magnifying glass, a bucket of water and a spoon—whatever invites hands-on messiness. And when they dive in, resist the urge to direct them. Just sit nearby with your coffee and watch what unfolds.

Let Them See You Struggle

Kids learn how to learn by watching how you do it. So when you mess up, forget something, or hit a wall—don’t hide it. Say it out loud. “Wow, this recipe is harder than I thought,” or “I’m really stuck on this crossword clue.” Then let them see you keep going. Show them that learning is about persistence, frustration, and finding your way through the weeds, not gliding effortlessly to the right answer.

Say Yes to the Weird Interests

Your kid wants to spend three weeks obsessively learning about sharks, or pyramids, or how cardboard boxes are made? Lean into it. Their brain is lighting up in that “zone of genius” where passion meets autonomy. The topic doesn’t matter—it’s the engagement that counts. The more often you let them follow their strange, specific fascinations, the more they learn that curiosity is a compass they can trust.

Reframe Failure as the Best Teacher

If there’s one thing school tends to do poorly, it’s teaching kids how to fail well. But the truth is, every great learning moment has failure baked into it. When your child flubs a science experiment or forgets their lines in the school play, don’t rush in with comfort or solutions. Ask what they learned, or what they’d try differently next time. Normalize failure not as a sign of weakness, but as a badge of real effort—because that’s where the deepest learning lives.


Here’s the part we don’t say often enough: you’re not raising a straight-A student—you’re raising a human. And if that human leaves your home with the tools to stay curious, to learn independently, to fall down and try again, you’ve done more than any flashcard or phonics program ever could. The love of learning isn’t a sprint; it’s a lifelong relationship. And like any relationship, it needs freedom, respect, and a little bit of magic to thrive.



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Monday, March 31, 2025

How College Students Can Earn a Degree Without Drowning in Debt

David Dixon of NeighborhoodWeek.org is back with another article of great advice - this one is intended for college students, an area near and dear to my heart!

If you're seriously considering college right now, for yourself or for a family member, you know how large the financial burden can be. It's wise to look into every possible avenue to defray the cost!

With that, please enjoy David's advice below:

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How College Students Can Earn a Degree Without Drowning in Debt

Higher education is often seen as a path to better career opportunities, but for many students, it comes with the burden of overwhelming debt. With tuition costs rising, it’s more important than ever to explore ways to earn a degree without accumulating significant financial strain. The good news is that with careful planning, strategic decisions, and alternative educational paths, you can graduate without a mountain of student loans. Here’s how you can earn your degree while keeping your finances intact.

Choose an Affordable School
Prestige may be appealing, but an expensive private university isn’t the only way to get a quality education. Community colleges, in-state public universities, and schools with generous financial aid programs can offer the same degree at a fraction of the cost. Many students start at a community college and then transfer to a four-year institution to save money on general education requirements. By prioritizing affordability over name recognition, you can significantly reduce your overall tuition expenses while still earning a respected degree.

Apply for Scholarships and Grants
Scholarships and grants are free money—meaning they don’t have to be repaid—yet many students fail to apply for all the opportunities available to them. Colleges, private organizations, and government programs offer financial aid based on merit, financial need, or special interests. Applying early and often can increase your chances of securing enough funding to offset tuition costs. With thousands of scholarships available, even small awards can add up and help reduce the amount you need to borrow.

Consider Work-Study and Part-Time Jobs
Balancing work and school can be challenging, but earning an income while studying can prevent excessive borrowing. Many colleges offer federal work-study programs that allow students to earn money while gaining valuable job experience. Part-time jobs, internships, and freelance work can also provide financial stability while keeping your loan debt in check. Even working a few hours a week can help cover books, housing, and daily expenses, reducing the need to take out large loans.

Open a Side Business
Starting a side business can be a powerful way to generate extra income and cover tuition costs without relying solely on loans. Whether it’s freelancing, selling handmade products, or offering a specialized service, launching a business requires market research, a solid plan, and the discipline to manage both work and studies. Forming a limited liability company (LLC) can provide financial protection by separating personal assets from business liabilities, making it a smart choice for student entrepreneurs. To avoid hefty lawyer fees, you can register your LLC in Ohio yourself or use a well-reviewed formation service, ensuring a cost-effective and legally sound setup.

Earn College Credits in High School
Many high schools offer dual enrollment or Advanced Placement (AP) courses that allow students to earn college credit before even stepping foot on a campus. Taking advantage of these programs can shorten the time you spend in college and cut down on tuition costs. Some students enter college with enough credits to skip a semester—or even an entire year—saving thousands of dollars in the process. The less time you need to spend in school, the less money you’ll have to spend earning your degree.

Live Off-Campus or at Home
Room and board can add tens of thousands of dollars to the cost of college, making it one of the biggest expenses beyond tuition. Living at home or finding more affordable off-campus housing can dramatically reduce costs. Many students also split rent with roommates, opt for meal prepping instead of expensive dining plans, or find creative housing solutions to cut expenses. By making smart housing choices, you can avoid unnecessary financial strain and allocate more funds toward tuition and books.

Use Online and Alternative Learning Options
Traditional four-year programs aren’t the only way to earn a degree. Online colleges, hybrid courses, and competency-based education programs offer more flexibility at a lower cost. Many accredited institutions provide affordable online degree programs that allow you to study at your own pace while working. Additionally, programs like MOOCs (Massive Open Online Courses) and trade certifications can provide valuable education at a fraction of the price of a traditional degree. Exploring alternative learning options can help you gain the skills you need without excessive debt.

Be Smart About Student Loans
If you do need to take out loans, be strategic about borrowing only what is necessary. Federal student loans typically have lower interest rates and better repayment options than private loans, making them a safer choice. Avoid using student loans to cover lifestyle expenses and instead focus on covering tuition and essential costs. By keeping loan amounts as low as possible and seeking out income-driven repayment plans, you can prevent excessive debt and set yourself up for financial success after graduation.


Getting a college education without massive debt is possible with the right approach. Whether you’re applying for financial aid, starting a side business, or considering alternative learning paths, you can minimize costs and avoid the burden of student loans. Graduating without overwhelming debt gives you the financial freedom to pursue your career goals without being weighed down by monthly payments. With smart financial planning, you can earn your degree while keeping your financial future secure.

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Tuesday, February 18, 2025

Links for Feb 2025

Links for February 2025

https://awealthofcommonsense.com/2024/06/the-two-types-of-money-people/

Any guesses which one I am?...

https://awealthofcommonsense.com/2024/03/long-term-recency-bias/

Great point for investors to remember! Maybe someone should post this link to the Reddit boards r/investing or r/stocks

https://rethinking65.com/the-preference-for-dividend-paying-stocks-is-irrational/

Perhaps this preference is mathematically irrational, but we're not robots. I suspect this preference for dividends can be chalked up to 'a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.' There's also the reality that a policy of paying dividends forces executives to think longer-term, and decreases the company's pile of cash. That pile, especially if it's extra large, presents a temptation to raid it [via the C-suite increasing their own bonuses or other compensation]. Naturally, a dividend policy doesn't guarantee anything, but there's probably a very good reason why many large corporations throughout history have paid dividends.

https://awealthofcommonsense.com/2025/01/historical-returns-for-stocks-bonds-cash-real-estate-and-gold/

Good overview of investing history for the United States over the past ~100 years.


Saturday, January 25, 2025

Why I'm Building a Pyramid

Why I'm Building a Pyramid

Hello again, world wide web! It's been a while!

I've been continuing to read and learn. While doing so, an analogy popped into my head that I'd like to share.

In March 2024, I read the classic business book, Barbarians at the Gate, about the leveraged buyout of RJR Nabisco. While thinking about the authors' description of the shenanigans taking place at company headquarters and on Wall Street, something occurred to me: the whole structure was upside-down.

RJ Reynolds built the tobacco company that was named after him, and the book credits lawyer Adolphus Green as being instrumental to the early growth of Nabisco. These men (and, of course, many others) helped to build and guide these two companies in their early days, circa 1900.

But by the 1970s, the old guard had long since perished, and the executives that succeeded them had exhibited varying degrees of quality - some did well, others did not.

Thursday, January 23, 2025

New: Amazon Haul

Amazon Haul

I don't do sponsored posts, because I want full editorial control (and because I have a full-time job, so I can afford to be choosy).

But to help keep the lights on around here, I'll spotlight an announcement from longtime partner Amazon. I partner with Amazon (and use Amazon myself) because I think they do a good job of keeping prices low for their customers, as well as offering a wide, wide variety of options for sale.

Amazon probably represents the most meritocratic marketplace around, at least as far as I know of. Are they perfect? No, of course not. But they do deliver consistently on the basics - great selection and low prices, along with good delivery times and convenience.

So, here's announcing Amazon Haul, a new program available on the mobile app only. Amazon Haul only offers items priced at $20 or less. Currently, the program includes 5% off of orders of $50 or more, and 10% off orders of $75 or more (no word on how long that offer will last).

And, Amazon emphasizes (three times in one announcement!) that everything available on the Amazon Haul marketplace is protected by Amazon's standard A-to-z guarantee, which now applies in the United States, Canada, the UK, and the EU.

Amazon's full announcement can be found here.

You can use this link right here if you'd like to check out the chart-toppers on Amazon Haul.

If you don't have and don't want the Amazon app, you can educate yourself while also supporting this blog by reading a book review on this site and buying the associated book if you're interested.

from Amazon's announcement about Amazon Haul:

Update 4/9/25:

Amazon Haul is now available on desktop! Here's a link if you're interested.

Saturday, January 18, 2025

Links for January 2025

 Links:


Some billionaires contribute something more tangible than law, financial engineering, or lines of code: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lBKfWcPT-Ug

"Tax shelters are to democracy what pollution is to the environment. When companies spew toxic wastes in the the air and water, they are saving money by not running cleaner operations and by making everyone else bear that cost through acid rain, fouled water and diseases like cancer. When they use tax dodges like the rigged Shell stock trades, they are saving money by not paying the price of maintaining the civilization that has made their success possible."
- David Cay Johnston, Perfectly Legal: The Covert Campaign to Rig Our Tax System to Benefit the Super Richand Cheat Everybody Else (2003), p. 227

I've been reading this book, and while it's not an easy or exciting book, the author does a great job detailing exactly how the very wealthiest Americans use tax loopholes and strategies of dubious ethical and legal standing to escape paying taxes.

Which, naturally, means that you and I end up paying more.

Infuriating...and a worthwhile read! Though the book is over 20 years old at this point and I'm sure a lot of strategies have changed, regulatory capture definitely has not.

"If I told you 5 years ago that there would be a global pandemic and Pfizer would be the leading manufacturer of a vaccine to combat the virus with sales of over $70 billion in 2021-22, you would probably have dumped your S&P 500 Index fund and put all your money into Pfizer (PFE). But for the five years ending Sept. 18th [2023], PFE is essentially flat while the S&P 500 ETF (SPY) has gained 67%. The lesson for investors - s[t]ock picking would not be any easier, even if we knew the future.

This is why the word surprise is in the dictionary and just another example of why you should ignore all 'Stocks to Buy Now' articles."
-George Sisti, Vectors Oct. 2023 newsletter for On Course Financial Planning

I enjoy reading these 'Vectors' newsletters for their long-term-focused perspective - and the snark.

Interesting perspective to consider: https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/retirement/my-dad-sacrificed-everything-to-retire-early-only-to-die-before-he-could-enjoy-it-i-ll-never-recommend-early-retirement-to-anyone/ar-AA1qBK2E?ocid=entnewsntp&pc=U531&cvid=315decfb2ba34e63a994b34d811df50e&ei=55

Can confirm that the housing market right now is, in fact, a slap in the face: https://www.msn.com/en-us/money/realestate/28-year-old-made-15-offers-went-65-000-over-asking-price-and-still-got-rejected-the-housing-market-is-a-slap-in-the-face/ar-AA1qJkWi?ocid=entnewsntp&pc=U531&cvid=8c2e0fcf57474e72aeb5b41c2547bfc4&ei=26


Tuesday, November 26, 2024

Thanksgiving 2024

This Thanksgiving season, I'm feeling a bit reflective.

While I frequently get irritated about injustices in the world, I'm also reminded of many things that have fallen to my benefit, and to the benefit of many - most - Americans. You can even extend that claim to most of the 'First World.' You know, nations like the U.S., Canada, many Western European nations, as well as Japan, Australia, and South Korea, among others.

Is everything always rosy in these countries? Certainly not! But people in these countries generally have the time and energy to worry about things other than farming to eke out a hand-to-mouth living. This extra 'bandwidth' is, in itself, a luxury.

Don't believe me? Just look at all non-human species. Or, if you prefer, look at the lot of most people throughout human history.

Things that have irked me recently include the abysmal CEO-worker pay ratio, conspicuous consumption (which has gotten a rocket boost from social media, though Thorsten Veblen coined the term in 1899, so the Internet is clearly not to blame!), and the elevated prices of what used to be called 'starter homes.' Oh, and avocado toast guy shooting off his big mouth again (though that was a while ago).

But it's important to remember the positive things too!

I'm thankful for numerous blessings in my life, which include:

  • Family
  • A stable job
  • The easy availability of high-quality information
  • A historically stable country (politically and economically)
  • Luxuries that we normally take for granted, like air conditioning
  • A healthy body and mind
  • Financial security
And, last but not least, I'm thankful for my blog readers!

It's been a whopping 10 years since I began this blog in May 2024! Along the way, I've been published - academically as well as in personal finance books connected to this blog - gotten full-time employment, and learned a whole lot about various topics (primarily investing, business, and history).

Thanks for following along on this journey, and here's to another 10+ years!